So I used it like I would use my own. I clicked through the Explorer and came across his dissertation amid old college work folders. Ah, here we…oh, holy shit? In every other context it would be funny—here were images of overflowing breasts, pink and hairless vulva; a writhing torso flanked by bathtubs, messy beds and silk. Emailed photos. Skype stills. Selfies that were taken before selfies were a norm. Her hair was straight, her ass pert, and her nose was thinner and a whole lot more regal than my multiethnic squeeze-buttons of nostrils. But worse were the scanned, insanely natural Polaroids with the two of them together, happy and in love. Drop the laptop and run?
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Sarah Davies, 29, told police she became "a little bit evil" and wanted to "humiliate him a little bit" following their split. A mum shared two pictures of her ex-boyfriend naked in the bath on social media after discovering he had been using a dating website after they split. Sarah Davies, 29, posted the images after seeing her ex had set up a profile on Plenty of Fish following their short relationship. She later told police she became "a little bit evil" and wanted to "humiliate him a little bit," a court heard. Her ex-partner's "anxiety had gone through the roof" since the images appeared online, the court heard. The mum-of-three posted the images of the man online using a number of fake Facebook profiles and on her own Snapchat account. Davies, of Ely, Cardiff, uploaded one of the images to her Snapchat story with the caption "ain't he handsome, rule number one, don't p a bh off" with smiley faces. Cardiff Crown Court heard on Monday that the images being shared left the victim "depressed" and with "no confidence".
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Where do they go? And should you care if your ex still has your nudes? The answers are mixed. For some, like Cindy Gallop—founder of Make Love Not Porn, a NSFW video site dedicated to correcting porn-based myths about sex —keeping nudes from past lovers is a way to reminisce about good times from her past. In my case, I consider and I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection. I treat those nudes as just a really nice and entirely private personal reflection. After all, though nudes are raunchy by nature, they can also be really sweet. Though Olivarius litigates revenge porn cases, she very much understands the appeal of sending nudes despite the risks involved. Former lovers are former lovers for a reason.
I've been split from my ex for 4 years; he has very embarrassing and explicit naked pics and a video which was taken without my consent. I'm worried he'll post them online and ruin my life and career. Shall I stop worrying as he hasn't posted them yet and we have had no contact and assume he won't or should I try to contact him to ask him to get rid of them or could that just flag up the control he has? What should I do? With everything that has appeared in the media recently about the repercussions of posting pictures of exes online, it is unlikely that he will act on this. He might think better of posting the pictures or the video for fear of what might happen, even more so if, like you say, one was taken without your consent. If it has been that long, he might have deleted them by now- if he has changed his phone and got into another relationship. Chances are, any bad feeling will have reduced to such an extent that he might not see them as leverage anymore, if he ever did. If you do make contact, it could open other scars from the past and an uncomfortable conversation with your husband to be will need to take place.